Can I…

Can I be home sick?? I think I am suffering from exhaustion. I haven’t had seven hours of sleep during the work week since September. So I’m at home. I’m am doing some work between napping. Even called in for out team meeting. I also had a long list of things I needed to do. I intended to start last night but I was exhauste. And then the list got longer.

Anyone ever look at old picutres? This weekend, I was doing some cleaning and stumbled across my memory book from high school. I might have to scan some of the pics because they are so funny. We were so young. And I remember every picture, when it was taken, and the circumstances. I had a pretty good time in HS. Then I went on to looking at pics from college and beyond. I also remember the when, where, why, who, and how of those pics too. I am so thankful for all the good times I’ve had.

Did anyone else see Dave on Oprah?? Is it just me or did he seem high? Maybe not even illegal stuff but something was off. People who have had limited interactions with high folks want to argue me down about it. But I reflected on how Natalie Cole sat right up on Oprha’s face high and a red kite with yellow streamers!!! She even admitted to it in later interviews.

I had no entries in the hooper so I’m just typing off the top of my head. Is that ok?

I went to a Super Bowl gathering. My girl ‘Andrea’ invited me. When I walked in, this b*tch had on a robe. And other guests had arrived. Oh and it wasn’t at her house. It was at some guy’s house. Some guy she’s not known a full moon cycle and there she is, inviting people to his home and greating them in his robe. Da hell? Well she ended up putting her clothes back on. And dammit if she put on the very outfit she had on Friday night when I last seen her. Wow. Class anyone?? If I can lay up with a dude for a weekend, he can tote me down the road to get clothes–but that’s just me.

I haven’t said anything to her about it but I found it interesting. I feel sorry for her because she and her man recently broke up. She’s said she’s told this new guy she doesn’t really want a relaionship. Yet, she’s playing house. And what man is going to say no to that? No strings attached? Path of least committment?? We’re all familiar. Sure he’s said there’s nobody else in his life. But I peeped when some of his guests arrived complaining about not being able to find his spot, they said they had been calling but his phone was off. I’m always suspicious of people who keep phones off. But that’s just me.

Thing is, they all seemed like really nice people. But I have no intentions of every being around them again. Or even bringing this up to her. She’ll just say she has things under control. She’s the emotional type and soon enough, she’s going to become attached to this rebound guy and try to switch things up. I hope for the best but these situations rarely end up good.

Would you break up with your significant other if s/he decided to be celibate?? If you discovered they had a child they never told you about? If you found out they’d been married before or was still married but seperated?

I know it’s easy for people to get out of one relationship and be into a ‘filler’ relationship a week later. But I’d never seen women do it. I know it can happen, but seeing it was interesting. I guess because I’ve never done that. I’m more prone to beating the old situation into the ground, mouring fully, then moving on. However, I have been the temporary fix for a man who has recently broken up. You know the shelf life of the temp fix? Between 3-6 months. I guess this is the rebound period.

Are big ass early 80’s belts coming back in style?? I refuse to wear them! Just like I refused that who leg-warmer thing!! There’s a chick on Busta’s new video with t a big ass belt on.

Men mourn funny. Seems like initially, they use everything and everyone they can find to take their minds off the situation. While women immediately obsess. But then the script flips right around three months. Because by that time, the chick he insta-girlfriended to take his ex’s place is starting to show flaws. And he starts to miss the old chick. Or right around that time, old chick makes her presence known. And given the option of being with newly flawed insta-girlfriend and ex, he chooses the ex. Shut up! I’ve done research. Sorta. OK, maybe not but whatever!

Are y’all still working out?? A few people had comments about G.I. Jane and working out. Are y’all still focused or has it faded not to be mentioned again til the spring or next year? Oh and another thing, how about changing your diet?? Research, yeah real research, shows that if you don’t adjust the way you eat (not temporarily but for life) you can work out forever, and have the strongest muscles–under a layer of fat. I have a friend who can get her cardio on and do strength training with ease. Her ass is still huge. Why? Because she still eats football player size portions.

I think I’m done rambling for right now. Can y’all e-mail me some topics to write about?